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The Key to Ending Pain With Others (How To Deal With Extreme Emotional Pain)

It has taken me 40 years to learn exactly how to free myself from pain with others. After reading the book The Dammapada I sat under a tree to contemplate, and meditate on the wisdom I was soaking in to the depths of my heart, mind and soul. I remembered crying oceans of tears in my past, trying to "get it right" with relationships, and remembered going through tremendous turmoil as I slowly learned how to be authentic and genuine. Then, I felt a deep and profound inner transformation as the words "give compassion and understanding" came into my mind. It was one of the greatest AHA moments that have changed my life. While sitting under the tree, divine wisdom poured into my mind and I am deeply grateful to be able to pass this wisdom on to you. When someone does or says something that is upsetting to you, give compassion and understanding for where they are on their path, for where they are coming from, rather than try to "get" them to understand you. When
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4 Crucial Reasons Not To Fill In The 'Is He The Right Boyfriend' Quiz

With the advent of the internet, there are many quizzes now online that say that they can help you know where your relationship is going . They offer a way of analyzing your relationship with your boyfriend and whether he is the one for you. However, I would ask you one question, "How do they know you or your guy and what your relationship is really like?" They cannot possibly know who you are and what you are like together, and that is why there are at least 4 crucial reasons not to fill in the 'Is He the Right Boyfriend' Quiz! They are not personal - These quizzes cannot be personal as they would have to know you and everyone else tempted to fill them in and that is just not possible. Because they cannot give you individual insight into your relationship and what your boyfriend is like, the value of filling one out would be questionable at best and at worst no value at all! They cannot take into account the important factors - Love tests available online and offl
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